Thursday, September 25, 2014

Home again!

Got a late start out of here for what turns out to be our 2nd leg, and last leg, of our planned 3-legged jaunts!  Lots of legging going on but we were moving right along.  3rd phase is cancelled due to Grandson having wisdom teeth pulled and Granddaughter has a bad cold.  We will hang up our traveling shoes and settle in for the winter.  So much to do around here so we will be busy bees.

Our trip?  Wonderful!
Round trip from Zillah to Carson City, NV to Central Point, OR and back to Zillah
familiar sight to all travelers on this road
Caretaker at rest stop was happiest/most pleasant man...said he LOVED his job
lunch stop
did not like this hotel room.  150 firefighters took all rooms.  lucky we got a bed!
is that a fire a brewin'?
lots of smoke in distance
Ben and Maureen are organic/recycle/gluten free (mostly)/weekly farmers market shoppers/reuse jars for glasses/solar paneled/always have fruit out for treats--sort of people.  Modern young couple.  cook together.  clean together.  Hikers/skiers/bikers and on and on.  Physically fit. They were gracious/welcoming/kind/considerate/gentle and good to us.  Wanted us to stay longer.

and yes!!...2 sweet grandsons that we enjoyed every minute with.  Murphy really wanted to establish some traditions with us and he chose to introduce us to the movie series Lord of the Rings. We were home bound (by choice- for Terry's comfort) so that worked out great for us.
all were loving and kind to us and it was worth the drive just for that.  They live on a hillside in Carson City.  Did you know they have rattlesnakes/scorpions/lizards and deer right there?  I was always on the lookout for snakes!!  UGH!  (They were happy with the apples also!)
taking care of Farmer's Market finds
eggplant relative of Mr. Potato Head?  check out nose!
only picture of the two.  sort of scary looking!
Sullivan-Grandpa-Murphy
Chef and Sou Chef
Partners in the kitchen
view from breakfast table
beautiful  .....
...but naughty.  ate 75 tulips!  Maureen not happy about that!
loved watching this show!
puzzles were a hit!
just kept pecking away at it
1000 pieces.  should have got 750 but they still completed it!
boys sharing some food.
healthy breakfast
story telling
getting ready for school.  Joy is the doggy!
healthy treat we found in our car to munch on the way home!
also two of their glasses filled with ice water for us.  sweet gesture!
House perched on hilltop looked sort of eerie to me.

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LOST!  4 hours!
We left Carson City heading to Medford.  At some point I said...
We are lost.
he said...no we aren't lost, we just don't know where we are.
I have heard that statement and we have had this conversation before.  
We had left the Atlas at Ben's.  Yes, we had the GPS.  We had no map.  Nothing looked familiar.  Nothing.  We had the bold point conversation many times during our side trip!

we are lost.
we are so lost!!
we are most likely really lost!
What??!!  Stopped the car and took a picture to confirm my suspicions!!
Lost
lost for hours
It's our wedding anniversary today.  The 22nd!  we used to look like this!!  sigh.

We were starving and this was the only place open.  We went in and about the time we realized it was our anniversary and we were sitting in a 50's diner and The Righteous Brothers came on their sound system and started singing Unchained Melody!  As teens we had danced to that amazing danceable song pazillion times.  I got teary.  It was romantic.  We relived our 57 years and were glad we stayed married and still loved each other.  Being lost was not as dreadful at that moment!

   Unchained Melody
Oh, my love, my darling
I've hungered for your touch
A long, lonely time
Time goes by so slowly
And time can do so much
Are you still mine?
I need your love
I need your love
God speed your love to me
Lonely rivers flow
To the sea, to the sea
To the open arms of the sea
Lonely rivers sigh
"Wait for me, wait for me"
I'll be coming home, wait for me
Oh, my love, my darling
I've hungered, for your touch
A long, lonely time
Time goes by so slowly
And time can do so much
Are you still mine?
I need your love
I need your love
God speed your love to me
Lonely mountains gaze
At the stars, at the stars
Waiting for the dawn of the day
All alone I gaze
At the stars, at the stars
Dreaming of my love far away
Oh, my love, my darling
I've hungered, for your touch
A long, lonely time
Time goes by so slowly
And time can do so much
Are you still mine?
I need your love
I need your love
God speed your love to me
Songwriters
H. ZARET, A. NORT


Quaint little town! 
We found a station that had a map.  love the hovering GPS as Terry tries to figure out where we are!
Looked across street and saw this building.  started laughing.  It will be a surprise if we find Medford!!
lost
still lost
Not lost!!  My friend of a million years...Pat!!
Medford Temple where Pat works on Tuesdays.  6000 sq.ft. smaller than CR Temple
Bruce.  Pat's Son-in-law.  a favorite friend of mine.  story later!
They have a farm of miniature animals!
Pat and her license plate!
adorable little cabin they built for Pat
her wigs!
Pat is 81 and her sister Marge is 90!
we talked for two hours, before she went to Temple, about life.  More later!
Uncanny.  Pat's husbands name was Ray and guess what store we pulled into???  more later.
homeward
homeward
last Motel.  Bible blocking anyone from coming through bathroom window!!
complaining...two chairs for relaxing at miserable hotel. paper shows how small they were.
or you could sit at bench.  We learned about good and not so good hotels!!
3438.9 miles + 1397.8 miles = 4836.7 miles!!!!

Thursday, September 18, 2014

On the road again (hear the music?)

So segment two of our wanderings begins at hopefully 7am!!  I managed to decrease our suitcases by 50% since our last wandering and they are in the car the night before.  2 boxes of apples are ready and one box of Ben's things.  Things as in...old school papers and baseball cards and that sort of paraphernalia!  Is there some sort of a law that states length of time that things can be stored in a parents garage?  After all he's only 39.  I hope it's not to soon to give it to him!  It's only been 20 years or so!



Fuji's in bottom box- requested by Maureen-- her favorite apple!
HoneyCrisp for my friend Pat...just because they are special and so is she!
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Kipper is taking care of house and he said...now you two kids get along with each other and don't fight!  Our kids make me laugh!

Last time we traveled to Carson City we had verbal fireworks in our car!  We had the GPS and Terry had a little map of sorts.  When the GPS was telling me to turn, the co-pilot was saying things (loudly) like-- NO NO There is a better way!  DON'T TURN!  Believe me!!!  Sometimes in marriage you decide to choose to be right or let the other one have their way.  I felt he was totally wrong and Ms.GPS was right and sort of thought...oh, what harm can there be?  Go with his plan.  Don't fuss.  It was a NIGHTMARE!!  He took us over the Sierra's and if that wasn't bad enough we went over them AGAIN!   It took us 24 hours and we had to stay in a hotel. 

True- he decided to follow the the GPS guide on our return and still to this day talks about what a quick and nice trip it was when we drove home. It's as if time has erased the horror of that mountain trek and he only remembers driving home.  I asked him why he thought he had found a nice easy quick trip when it took us to the heights and down and then back up.  He said the map looked straight.  When I checked it out it looked like baby rick-rack.  not smooth and straight.  So he's all calm and we are in total agreement that the GPS will guide us this time.  (I love my GPS!!)

I will admit that I've gotten lost so I'm not innocent in that respect but really he wins on treacherous roads with that little jaunt!

Looking forward to seeing my longtime friend- Pat and then super happy to see Ben, Maureen, Murphy, and Sullivan!
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My mind is focused thought-wise on upcoming General Conference and the General Women's Meeting.  Just antsy with anticipation for all meetings and especially Gen. Conf.!

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See you next week!!!


Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Cycle of life...a segment...the beginning

 We women are amazing creations in power and strength and courage.  At the same time we are tender and gentle.  

This is most prevalent when I see the nurturing MotherHearts that we each have.  We need not bear a child to love children and have impact in their lives.

The women in our Ward are incredible women.  I'm sure you feel the same about your Ward.

Meet Celise.  A young woman with an old soul.  In my day she would have been called the MotherEarth type.  

She tills the earth.  She tends to goats and bees.
She was organic before the word was popular!

And she Mother Hen's her own chicks, with their little sun-kissed cheeks, from playing outdoors.

There are other Mothering souls that I rub shoulders with, on a regular basis of admiration, but today my thoughts are with Celise who labored long and hard to bring her little son into the world.
 

 Before.....
 After....
 8.5 lbs 20.5 mommy and baby are doing great. Boy name ideas?


His name is....
 Rowen Alexander
Alexander is his 4th great grandpa on McRae side

(don't know why everything is to the left!  because I copied the pictures from FB?)

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Moving on...

This is so silly of me.  I feel sad/bad that I lost that blog post!!  Why?  I wondered that also.  I kept trying to put it back together and think of what I wrote. It flowed when I first wrote it.  Now I felt stuck in mud.

I realize that I love talking with people one on one and blogging gives me that chance.  I know.  I know.  it goes out to more than one but to me I'm always talking to one person. That is how I feel.  Usually just visiting with one.  Or visiting with a very small group.

I realized today how personal my blog is for me.  I share my heart and thoughts and feel a connection with those reading what I write.  Why on earth I'd be such a drama queen and pout like a teen is beyond me.  So enough time spent on such a dreadful dilemma.  I hear a bell ringing...oh, timer is dinging, time is up and it's time to move on!!

Speaking of time.  time to get ready for segment two of our Senior jaunt.  Terry is ready to ride in the navigator sidecar and has his map ready.  Dreaded map.  But I have my handy-dandy GPS that is as trustworthy as a true Boy Scout so we will not get lost.  Lost as in our last trip to Nevada.  I will most likely purge that story out of my system again and bring it back to life for one more telling!!

Hubby thinks I should just forget it ever happened and move on and not bring it up...again.  But I will tell it again and relive my nightmare of the Sierra's. 

Did I tell you we took peaches to Idaho and Kansas?  Fantastic treat for everyone.  We are taking apples on this trip.  I love living here.






Monday, September 15, 2014

no idea of what happened...

I did a blog, posted it for this morning, and it's not here!!  I've looked everywhere!  I will reconstruct it today and share.  so very disappointing to me.  I wish I had notes!!!  I hope my mind can remember what I wrote!  for now...heading to breakfast with a friend.  that is fun to do, don't you think?  getting ready to leave again for leg two of our wanderings.  later!

you as a reader are so appreciated by me.  Thanks!

Friday, September 12, 2014

a couple more pictures!!

Looked to see if I had any more pictures to share and found a couple.  Amazing that I didn't have 100's!
Relic of the past...wall where pay phones used to hang.  at a rest stop.
this has to be seen to grasp it's grandeur!!
Dave and Princess
Junior...house boss
Princess...the meek
not a fan of granite BUT this is the most beautiful I've ever seen.  from Brazil.  gold/black.  stunning!!!
Movie marathon ...family and pets
what a picture!

Dave's fave sport to do

Thursday, September 11, 2014

What a fun time!!!!

Whirlwind trip by seniors and I don't mean high-schoolers!  yesiree...3438.9 miles in 2 weeks and one extra day!  how does such craziness happen?  We were missing our kiddos, Terry wasn't feeling real swift and had been sitting around a lot and I thought...he can sit in the car as well as here so lets go on a road trip.  and road trip we did!!  I drove every single mile and I must say I enjoyed it.  There were some moments of stress when the GPS and my navigator were arguing and I was throwing in my frustrated feelings also, all the while driving at 80 mph!  ( I did love those many long fast straight roads! me the race car driver!)

 I never summarized days as it was all buzzing by. I didn't bring a tablet (as in paper/pencil)  I will try and be orderly as I tell of our grand adventure from memory.


3438.9 miles round trip.  Zillah WA to Wamego KS


This is our grandson Lance.  At the airport in Las Vegas with his Mission President & wife, his last companion who was also going home.  When he went on his Mission he asked us to please not die while he was gone and I asked him to please serve to the end and not come home early.  We each had kept our word...we were still alive and he not only served to the end but a couple of dozen Missionaries were actually quarantined for a bed bug outbreak and he couldn't leave until all units were cleared.  So he was there 5 extra days!  Terry had his stroke about 6 months into his Mission and his Mission President had him call to talk to his Grandpa.  I really felt he needed to see him.  Also it was a time of celebration to have our first Grandson to serve a Mission to come home.

On Saturday night at a wonderful family dinner, with the in-house tornado/hurricane alarm sounding a few times to give a heads-up of a storm 15 miles away, Lorrie (our DIL) mentioned something about talks on Sunday.  I asked Greg if he was speaking and Lance said he was.  I was so happy and asked what his subject was.  he said they had waited on his homecoming until we got there and he would be speaking about his mission.  I dissolved into tears.  still makes me misty-eyed.

It was such a kind gesture and I so appreciated Greg and the Bishop and Lance putting off his talk until we got there.  What a surprise!  it was also a surprise that the Bishop gave Lance free rein and half of the speaking time.  He told him to speak about whatever he felt to speak about.  I know he is my grandson, but really I have heard hundreds of missionary return talks since I joined the Church and this was the best in the world!!!  (I hear you laughing!)  It was doctrinally so deep as he told of his own conversion and testimony.  I tried to control myself and not make sobbing sounds but my face looked like I was standing under a waterfall.  by the end of sacrament, between the humidity and my waterworks, I looked red and scary but I was so happy.

His talk was mentioned in Gos. Doc. and SS and RS and his sister said also in YW.  he was so humble and I thought I'm going to die right now of happiness and that will be okay!  Okay.  I understand that I'm over the top and this is more than even pictures in a brag book that Grannies sometimes carry in their little purses but it was fantastic and I was so glad we were there.

It was a super busy time as Lance just had a few days before he headed to BYU-I and he had to get a car/computer/phone/ etc. etc.  We managed to have lots of together time.  It was wonderful to be in their home and share their life.

Modern people and there were tablets/laptops/etc. all over the kitchen table and they would just come and sit down and do whatever they needed to do.  We jumped into the fray and indexed with them and that was amazing to experience.  It felt good to do Gospel things together.  (which reminds me...my attitude towards indexing did a total about face and I really missed doing it everyday.  I still don't feel a close connection to those I'm doing it for but I think of their family maybe looking for them and that makes my hard heart soft and I like to help them in their search)

We had great family meals & visits, scripture study nightly, the girls sang duets and solos and played the piano and also clarinet (Brooke), we talked and talked, played a game, laughed, had some serious moments.  We loved it!  We love them!  All 4 of our grandchildren were there for the entire time and that was so incredible!

In today's fast paced world it seems people seldom take time to share the thoughts and feelings of their hearts.  When we left Greg's we found a letter that we will keep forever from our granddaughter Britta.  It is filled with love and gratitude and testimony and is priceless.  made us both teary.  so genuine and beautiful!  a treasure!

Lance and Grandpa at Cat- looking at Greg's designs

Britta singing and playing for Grandpa
Yes, Dorothy the Emerald City is truly green.  Everywhere. Off Greg's deck.
 
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David's family is amazing in their energy level and busyness.  I don't see how they do it.  They manage two jobs and two children and a house and they are wonderful.  Just thinking of David's genuine love for us just tugs at my heart.  Another wonderful gracious daughter-in-law.  When you think that I, out of the blue, sent a note to these two families and basically said...hi.  Dad and I want to drive and see you right away.  is that okay?  they all made it happen.  pared back on work and rearranged things and even asked us to stay longer than we did.

Dave is my loving affectionate hugging child and I just love it!!  We spent family time watching Sam's football game and he did so great!  Dave and I went to the Dance Academy where Grace spends hours a week and I got to watch through the glass doors this budding star.  She is so talented!!  Great family meals again.  enjoyable conversation! Movie marathon! Fun!

Proud Daddy


Lots of trophies!  One individual first place in Nationals!



I went to a fight to watch Dave ref.  (yes.  I did.)  he took me in the afternoon to see the arena and I told him I would go for awhile to see him ref.  He melted.  Sometimes a Mom just has to step up to the plate and show the unconditional love she feels.  I did.  I'm glad.  he treated me like a queen.  Jen took me and we didn't stay the whole thing, just a few matches for me to see him work.  he arranged VIP parking, bracelets for the best seating and had told people in advance...if you see an older woman that looks like she doesn't belong here, that is my Mom.  A lot of people came over and introduced themselves and told me how honest and fair David was in his reffing and how nice he is etc. etc.  I was really proud of his reputation.

I had 4 boys State Wrestler types so I'm used to wrangling and what I saw was similar to my boys roughhousing and then carrying it a bit far and hitting each other.  it wasn't a death match like fighting roosters although they were pounding each other to pieces.  they would go for it and I didn't like it anymore than I liked my boys wrestling when they were home.  I'm a peace maker not a fighter but I did have outstanding wrestlers around my dinner table that I was proud of.

I had to chuckle when David looked out the cage and saw me and grinned and waved.  He loves to ref but jujitsu is where his heart is and that is what he does.
Jen and Dave! 

a fighter that likes Dave reffing

a fan of Dave's and vice versa.  she was so sweet!

an older picture of Dave reffing.  resting while mat gets mopped up!


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Maybe you heard about this house.  It's up the hill and to the right from David.  not a neighbor.  you can look up details on house flattened by landslide in North SLC on InternetProbably $1 million home.  2 stories high.
what a nightmare!!!   pancaked!

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Had a great coming and going brief visit with my sister.  Saw my 2 nieces and their children and had a nice family dinner and it was wonderful.  Shelly's boys love us and we love them and it was fun to catch up on their life in grade school and high school.
Dixie.  my sweet sister.
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You know we live in a little tiny place but it's so great for us and one of the great things is we have showers you can step into.  It's safe and we appreciate it.  we stayed at 4 different hotels  and I ended up taking pictures of 3 bathrooms!  so much for appealing travel pictures!!  Speaking of hotels, I always laugh when I see the bill board for the Geyser Grand at Baker and remember traveling with someone who thought it was a hotel for gays!  Actually Jeanee and girls and I stayed there one year and it's a gorgeous old building.  a step into the past.  I never thought about hotels all being grouped together.  We stayed at Limon (lie-mun) and it has 8 highway hub or maybe 7, out in the middle of seemingly nowhere, and it is just filled with hotels and eateries in one central area.  all vying for travelers to come and sleep and eat.
to tight on the door?  just carve it out! 


challenging grip bar wedged in by toidy!
awe!  sigh!  our favorite step in shower!!!
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Acknowledging my lack of  knowledge...I had no idea the Rocky Mountains are named that because they are rocky!!  (come on.  no making fun of me.  surely you have something that is obvious to others and you are clueless about!)  we traveled WA to OR to ID to UT to WY to NEB to KS and then from KS to COL to UT to ID to OR and WA.  The scenery was beautiful both ways and varied and breathtaking.  I thought of my late Homer artist friend Lou.  She was a former atheist and the turning point for her in accepting the Gospel, was the beauty of the earth.  The Creation.  She felt a God must have created it as no man could and it was to beautiful to be an accident.  Some of the Colorado landscape just made you want to sit and stare.  it was like looking at a mosaic.  how on earth can there be such massive loveliness??  The navigator gave his best effort to take pictures but....no comment.  He did good on a couple of them.  I don't do so hot myself so no complaints.  (I wanted us to take family pictures at each place and that thought really got lost in the shuffle and was never even voiced.  Greg had mentioned a friend could come over but it was a fleeting thought.  Next time.)
uh-huh.  sure it's pretty.

side rail/car interior

tunnel.  okay.  okay.  I'll spare you.  you get the picture! 
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I loved the names of some towns/roads and asked Terry to write them on his gas receipts.  here are some favorites..... well, surprise, surprise...the King says they are on the gas receipts...checking them over...not so!  what a shame.  they were so fun.  I remember two...Starvation Road and a town called No Name.

This is way to long but maybe you can just read bits and pieces.

Terry did fantastic and we survived the trip because of this little jewel...
 ....our marriage is still intact.  We are still in love.  He was a great sport to go on a trip out of his comfort zone and actually enjoy himself.  We will go on another long trip like that and I will know better how to pack etc.  (I can convince Terry to go again.  I know I can!!)

Before another long trip though...2 more legs to this one....Carson City and then Kirkland.  will do that quickly before snow flies and then I will get take time to have cataract surgery on both eyes.  I only had trouble once and that is a story for another time.  it was dark and I should have been off the road.  no accident.  just nighttime.  my bewitching hour!!

Thanks for your interest in our trip and I like to believe you prayed for us as things went so great on my driving (well, that one time)